CRITICIZE
COOPER.
Cooper loves thoughtful criticism because it helps him learn. He knows he has blind spots, gets things wrong, and has a lot to improve. If you see something he could do better, he would genuinely like to hear it.
This is not a debate page or a self-roast page. It is simply a place for honest feedback from people who may notice things Cooper does not.
What Cooper hopes you will tell him
Specific.
Anything specific helps. A habit, blind spot, assumption, communication style, decision, or pattern you think he should notice.
Something he can act on.
It does not have to be profound. Small observations are often the most useful because they are easy to miss from the inside.
Uncomfortably true.
Especially tell him the things you suspect he may not realize about himself. That is where outside perspective is most valuable.
How Cooper wants to receive it
Listen first.
The first job is to understand what you mean, not to explain himself.
Look for the lesson.
Even when he does not fully agree, there may still be something useful in why you saw it that way.
Use it when it is right.
The point of asking is to learn, adjust, and improve, not merely collect comments.
What should Cooper learn?
A few reasonable questions.
Will Cooper be offended?
He may not enjoy every sentence in the moment, but he genuinely values candid feedback. He would rather know than remain unaware.
Can I be anonymous?
Yes. Leave the name blank. Your email address may still appear because this uses your email client.
Can I compliment him?
Yes. Useful feedback can include what is working too. The point is accuracy, not negativity.
What if my criticism is “this website is obnoxious”?
Fair. Please tell him why. That is exactly what this site is for.